'Your weakness is what you look for in their strengths'
I had this very random thought and I was awed by the beauty of how profound it sounded.
When we make choices whether it be job , a partner , a friend ; we generally are looking for somethings ..some criteria. We shortlist this criteria on the basis of what we think of ourselves.
These are mainly the areas in which we know that we can work singularly and in areas where we need others.
When we choose a job we study it and we look for aspects that will strengthen us, if ,we make a choice in the favor of the prospective organization.
When we decide that we want to marry a person we assess them behaviorally ( this may be a subconscious or a conscious process) eg. ( aggressive vs. composed )an aggressive person always thinks very highly of a person who can think it through and decide ...this is because he or she wants to be the other.This under current of respect and awe helps us make our choices .It is the 'X' factor.
Ann its right upto some extent what we are lacking off, we will complete it from job, friends or life partner... X factor or AXE factor
ReplyDeleteBut I feel...marriage is a social bonding defined/designed by our fore fathers, to stablize the socio-economic conditions and avoid forest rules. One man - one wife...and now again we are reverting to back through live-in...its OK, but marrying a person will sometimes or most of the times only satisfy the physical needs of persons, but to live a person, who is literate, it require sharing of ideas, courage, sympathy, love and all those for which we all discover FRIEND
And to live life lavishly or simply, earning is necessary, so we all are at work place, but here also by our mind, hardwork we are strengthing our organizations and nation...
I am fully in agreement with Ann and fact is that every body is having same factor in his / her life but many of then r not actually aware with the facts.
ReplyDeleteI am really impressed with her saying above.