My Time : - I :)

Today is my date at the airport alone...missed my flight by 5 mins. Ask me how much that is worth :)
Any way's its fun here, I am at the Airport since the last 6 hours and 2 more to go. The first 2 hours went in a jiffy just figuring out what to do next and making alternative arrangements.
I took time to come to terms with the fact that I was not going to reach on time , my meetings would get rescheduled and my sleep would have to be sacrificed. The last one is the only one that hurts most after the faf is over ..ok kidding all hurts but sleep is what never stops  making its presence felt.
Mumbai Airport is beautiful, staring is a national timepass.I also indulged a lot . Saw lots of models making chaos at the airport food gallery.
Its strange how you feel so much in need for a holiday especially when you cant have one. I seem to notice only those guys talking about exotic locations and HOLIDAYS.
I learnt something about human behavior ( 3 idiots style).
Scene 1: You miss flight (any unwanted unasked and stupid mistake)
Behavior: Panic
Scene 2: Pure Begging ( I want it all corrected right now...your joking.. cant be serious .. I missed it!!)
Behavior: Self Anger
Scene 3: Alternative Arrangement ( Lets make it ok)
Behavior : Blame game ( its because of anyone but me ...husband /job /even those who had no idea of this )
Scene 4: Long wait (waiting for your brain to function again)
Behavior: Self Realization 
Scene 5: Still waiting (7 hours is long man)
Behavior: This is a funny situation ( hmm...heheheh...hmm..hehehhe) Dont ask whats the hmm for ..? ( I didn’t blame anyone even if they are very inefficient. who am I ...another version of the same)(happens to everyone once in a while and to some all the time)
OK post this I am still studying the behavior ..since I am still waiting… hope I don't miss it again ...I am laughing to myself so loud ... may not hear announcements)

Whispers from today

I read through my blog after 4 years.I realized how I distance myself from all my experiences. I shared my meanings that I created through my observations so that you may make the most of it.
But I realize that after so many years when I see my blog I love the blogs that I have written as me, addressing myself in the present tense.

I see that I am a positive person but who lives in the future or in the past. This is my first blog in the here and now.

I feel a sense of gratitude for being able to live through my writings. Its an awesome feeling especially the blog, My Time...it is the only blog that made me go back to my memories.

The process of seeing my thoughts was interesting..also seeing how my demons have not changed. I keep telling the same story to myself ..the positive talk.

But its helped me. I have become more mature and self sufficient..I value me and my time.. I will observe and write more.. for now adieus

The law that saves us all !

If you have heard the famous speech of Steve Jobs you know what I mean by connecting the dots. If you haven't then I will only tell you that you are missing something..Go into the world of Google and search for it and watch it or read it today!
The reason I built this context is that I recently understood the magic of how the dots connect.Recently a friend of mine was asked to move out of her job after she served the organization for 4 long years . The reason stated was parity..when I spoke to her I realized this had happened to me however in a different way . In my case I had communicated to my ex employer that my goals were different than the companies and they realized that we would only be wasting precious time through this association. We finally separated  and it has turned out very well for me. I received what I exactly wanted to do and realized that its only till the time that it hits you that you actually understand .
My friend was very rightly advised that , when your back is to the wall , the only way you can move is forward.

Forgotten strengths

We are a part of the universe that has created us with immense internal strength. It is we who either sideline or forget our strengths. We become the creation of our constant conditioning. It is when we blossom and look for the strengths that we find it. When we read and explore the stories of those who found their talents , it explains how we can move out of the cucoon into the world of  that we create
As conditioned human beings we all are subject to the thoughts that our elders and dear ones believe in . But creation is waiting to happen once we move into the conciousness of our strengths
Just the way we as human beings condition animals to behave as pets we too are conditioned into this world. Even a mighty elephant once born is strongly bound with iron shackles , even if he tries to run , he fails. But as he gets more strong , his conditioning gets stronger.. man ties him down with a frail stick but does he try to escape into freedom ..the answer is a big NO. Are we not the ones who are the superior specie that thinks.. then why do we doubt more than we trust.
Lets get free and discover ourselves like babies do.Remember you are strong!!

Beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder ?? or does it lie within ?

It would seem like this should be the easiest thing to do . But I suggest you try it.

This is for all the sisters and brothers who think that God didnt spend enough time on them as much as he spent on Aishwarya Rai or Priyanka Chopra  :)

Are you the type of person that wants to do everything for another person ? Are you the person who fishes for compliments ? Would you look into the mirror and say I think I am looking pretty instead of saying I am pretty ?

Today I read a description of  a character in my book and wow! the picture that emerged in my mind was gorgeous .

 Its much easier to write about feelings but to write about facts about simply looking at your own picture and writing down the features you think are the most awesome in you is a tough job .

I am doing this for myself .Its a creative way to actually feel at peace and to love your self.

 Do this for your self.. its a wow experience.. then put me a comment on how you felt .

The 'X' Factor

'Your weakness is what you look for in their strengths'

I had this very random thought and I was awed by the beauty of how profound it sounded. 

When we make choices whether it be job , a partner , a friend ; we generally are looking for somethings ..some criteria. We shortlist this criteria on the basis of  what we think of ourselves. 

These are  mainly the areas in which we know that we can work singularly and in areas where we need others.

When we choose a job we study it  and we look for aspects that will strengthen us, if ,we make a choice in the favor of the prospective organization. 

When we decide that we want to marry a person we assess them behaviorally ( this may be a subconscious or a conscious process) eg. ( aggressive vs. composed )an aggressive person always thinks very highly of a person who can think it through and decide ...this is because he or she wants to be the other.This under current of respect and awe helps us make our choices .It is the 'X' factor.

Your mind controls the universe around you!

What you say is what happens!

Its been a while since I am reading books with concepts about how we control our environment and our consequences. Thoughts like 'No Monkey( A law used in communication)' 'Law of Attraction ( Secret)' 'Alchemist' are very close. They are interrelated and all trying to achieve Positive thoughts to rotate around the mind. A dominant thought whether negative or positive becomes reality. I have faith in positive thinking and believe that no situation is hopeless.


Even if one has no faith in these theories and blames these thinkers for simplifying or alternatively complicating life, one can practice positive thoughts.

Its a bliss to have green gardens and beautiful flowers in your head a paradox to it is dark lanes scary faces and noises that give goose bumps

Try practicing it and consciously saying happy things, it works